Have you been a support for a brother or sister? God used you in the process to help draw them out of there darkness and into the light God. And you continue to uplift them, support them and encourage them. You watch as they walk through doors that only God can open. And even when they focus on the one tiny dark cloud in there life, you are the one to lift there head and show them all the God given sunshine around them. Only to hang up the phone and face the storm clouds in your own life. You wonder "God where is my cheerleader?! Where is my door that no man can shut?!" You look all around you and you see your high school classmates getting married and building families and/or careers. You look back at your self and wonder where you went wrong!
Im here to say to you, you have not made a wrong turn! You are on the right track. I know the world says "nice guys/girls finish last" and it's tempting to take things in your own hand start making things happen. But know this “The flower that blooms in adversity is the rarest and most beautiful of all.” - The Emperor, Mulan (1998) God has you on a different course than your friends, thant the rest of this world. So when they have peaked, you will be just getting started. The last flower too bloom also last the longest. So keep standing and watch God work.
Much Love & God Bless